YOU CAN’T QUIT NOW:THE TEMPTATION OF QUITTING.
To quit is easy but it comes with Huge negative consequences. You don’t quit when you’re yet to achieve your goals. You can’t quit when you have a long list of people looking up to you, drawing emotional and psychological strength from you to fuel their motivation to sail higher.
Why do you want to quit? Have you considered the effort you have put in so far? Before you quit consider where you were before you started. Who said you have not made any progress? You’re growing daily don’t quit. The little efforts and commitment you have sacrificed so far is yeilding result even if you don’t see it now, don’t quit.
Why quit now? Have you considered the consequence of quitting this course? what do you think will be your outcome if you quit? Will you feel fulfil if you quit? Or you think you will be termed extremist for holding on? No you won’t, so don’t quit.
DON’T JUSTIFY THE TEMPTATION TO QUIT.
It’s okay to feel tired. It’s okay to feel frustrated sometimes. It’s okay to feel lonely sometimes. It’s okay to feel bored. It’s okay to want to take a break. It’s okay to want to hide from people to conceal your weakness or fear. It’s okay not to argue even when it feels right to argue. It’s okay to want to run away. It’s okay to feel berated of ideas. It’s okay not to know what to say when you actually feel you should say something but don’t quit in all of these.You can! Dream on
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN THE TEMPTATION TO QUIT COMES?
When you feel tired, take some rest, your body system especially your brain needs it to generate ideas for you but don’t quit. When you feel lonely in your vision, pray! Don’t quit. Truth is, there are times when the weight of your vision becomes more heavy on you that you feel every one has left you alone. Truth is they didn’t leave you alone. You’re just not seeing them because you have more in-depth knowledge of your vision more than anyone could have and as such their commitment can’t go beyond their level of knowledge. So don’t quit!
You remember when the great master, the Lord Jesus Christ our saviour was to go to the cross? He wanted the disciples to watch and pray with him but they couldn’t in as much as they would have love to do so because they have no such in-depth knowledge of the urgency and weight of Jesus Vision. So it’s okay to feel lonely but that’s not enough reason to quit or affixed blame to others because you never can tell how confused they were that they can’t help you see farther.
When you feel bored step out of your comfort zone don’t quit. The thing is,there are times the very room you once cherish will look like a prison yard to you restraining your flow of ideas so you need to step out for a while to breath in fresh air, see things anew and clear your mind. Same way, when you feel tired take a break, do it with all sense of excitement and take your mind from the urgency of the vision, hence you won’t enjoy your break session.
To take a break means to totally free your mind from whatever is troubling you. You don’t take a break thinking how mountainous your challenges are. It’s a time to enjoy nature view. A time to play with the kids. A time to watch comic play.
DO YOU QUIT AFTER TAKING A BREAK?
After the break comes what you say? Smiles. After the break comes fresh ideas on what to do, how to do it, when to do it, whom to see or call, when to make the call or pay such visit. Always walk around with your note pad and pen. Write down whatever ideas you have up there, no idea is useless. If it’s not important today, it will tomorrow. No body is insignificant because even a mad man can give you direction on what next to do sometimes without you even envisaging it.
WHAT IF THE PROBLEM INCREASES AFTER THE BREAK?
Problem never actually increases, it’s our mental processing of those problems that actually makes them seem so. All what seems numerous as problem are actually tied to one major problem. The ability to sit down, Break things down and analyze the so called numerous problem is what makes problem solving easy and not quitting your course.
Take for instance the way spider spreads his web round a house. You actually get caught in the web when going to every part of that house . You might clean up the kitchen, the parlor, the toilet, laundry room, the store house day in day out without actually killing the spider. The cobwebs spread will continue until you locate the root, the spider itself and kill it, that’s what solving problem is all about.
Quitting your marriage won’t make you feel fullfil. Quitting your vision won’t make you fullfil either. What will people learn from your experience? Have you thought about that? Can it motivate another to run doggedly with his or her vision? In regards to solving marital issues, befriending a divorcee will never help you. Sometimes checkmating your association will do the magic.
So you can quit if you think you have no child, no siblings, no friends, no associates, no generation is looking up to you which is almost an impossible situation. Thus if you do have anyone looking up to you don’t quit.
HELPFUL TIPS TO MAINTAIN YOUR FOCUS
Always walk around your room making positive declaration that you won’t quit.
Always say to yourself that you are a winner and as such winners don’t quit, so you can’t quit.
Always tell yourself there’s a way out even if you can’t see it now.
Always tell yourself that even if no one has ever done it, you will do and you must do it.
Always tell yourself that everyone has a problem and problem is meant to be solve and you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you which includes solving this problem.Wow ! you’re almost there, don’t give up now
Always tell yourself that you have gone too far to quit even if you are just starting. Remind yourself that just agreeing to start only is a long journey you’ve already embarked on and you won’t quit now.
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