God loves his children to the point that he speaks to them directly or indirectly because He cherished his children. Many died in toxic relationships not because God did not care about their well-being but because they fail to realise or recognise the various signals God want them to see for them to get out of such relationships.
Toxic relationships is one of the lead cause or factor of depression today in every part of the world. Do you think God doesn’t care about how careless His children are becoming?
Of course He does; but because his children no longer yearn for a relationship with him, they easily fall prey of toxic relationships.
You may want to know or even ask what a toxic relationship entails or how ask how God jettison his children from such mess caused through toxic relationships.
In this articles I will teach you what toxic relationships entails whether emotional relationship or otherwise and how God eventually delivers his children from being a victim of such relationship.
The word toxic for the purpose of these articles means something that is negatively or severely harmful to one’s health or one’s overall being. Thus, a harmful or a toxic relationship is such that causes the victim depression, emotional torment and it’s often fueled with lies deceit and distrust.
How do you know you are in a toxic relationship?
You know you are in a toxic relationship when your supposed partner feels more comfortable being with his or her ex.
You are in a toxic relationship when your supposed partner never apologizes for his or her wrongs but find a way to turn the tables around or against you thereby making me feel guilty and become unnecessarily apologetic causing you emotional torment.
You are in a toxic relationship when your supposed partner fails to do the needful or find it difficult to set a clear goal of what he or she want for his or her life or for the relationship in question .
Another way is when such a partner usually come up with excuse to divert every discussion that is goal-driven on the basis of hiding his weakness and subjecting you to unnecessary assumption.
You are in a toxic relationship when you’re supposed partner looks good at your expense to feel comfortable with his or her ex while you beg for his attention and even compare him to do what he supposed to do.
You are in a toxic relationship as a woman or a young girl if you are the sole financier of that relationship and the guy in question brings nothing to the table financially or even idealistically to help solve problems but rather becomes the major problem of the relationship and yet tells you that he has seen a thousand and one shits and as such doesn’t care about what comes may.
You are in a toxic relationship when your partner feel comfortable not taking a risk but believe what will be will be and as such folds his or her arms to watch things be and yet hates to be called lazy and unserious.
Remember that weenie families I talked about last year in one of my articles concerning his farm yard?
After planting his crops and decide not to weed; I mean clear off the weeds on the basis of “what will be will be”, certainly that farmyard became a forest because he failed to take responsibility. so also is a relationship built on the basis of “what will be will be”. Nothing will be until you do the needful.
You are in a toxic relationship when your partner join force to compare you with his ex or her ex. You must know that there is nothing you will do for such partner that will be hundred percent appreciated rather he or she sees the act of you helping as opportunity to suck you dry or siphon you and make you emotionally frustrated and when you complain you are termed a nagging partner.
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