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The Deceptive minds around you. Watch out now! 1😳

The word deception is rather a very broad and interesting word, therefore cannot be too over emphasized. In this case we shall be relating to a deceptive personality, persons, motives and how to know them as well.

In my own way of explanation I would rather say that deception can be seen as a fraudulent conviction towards believing something is true but in other words not in anyway true.

Deception can be defined as the act or action of deceiving someone. Therefore, we can also deception is a thing that deceives .

The bible’s first deceptive personality is called “The serpent” (as seen in the book of Genesis) in the story of Adam (who was he first man) and Eve ( the first woman).

In this story we can relate how serpent convinced Eve’s mind to do something Negative against God’s rule that is the serpent convinced Eve to eat of something forbidden and in turn eve convinced Adam, that’s is to say that a deception can be contagious and at the end the negative act attracted a negative consequences.

A deceptive mind can be known in the following ways
1) their words do not match their actions (different words different actions); the deceptive mind is a fraudulent one, that is to say that when ever you come in contact with a deceptive personality or person, their words do not tally with their dispositions or actions.

Deceptive minds

2) They Avoid responsibilities: a deceptive mind is one who tries as much as possible to avoid being responsibile for his or her actions or affairs, they try as much to swindle their way out of it; that is whenever there is a task to perform (which is usually financial or Monterey). Also read

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Don’t let deceptive people get to you to suck out your resources and time. Don’t let deceptive people used and dump you. Deception is a game most people who are connected to us played at us to get to us and after getting what they want, boom!! They are gone! Read:

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A deceptive mind always find ways to avoid the opportunity to give or solve a problem for the benefit of another Even when he has enough to handle it.. it is more likely to say that a man that is deceptive can also be called a stingy also read:

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3) problem starters: a deceptive mind is one who Sparks up troubles wherever they are. They could light up quarrels, agitate a fight and cause catastrophy therefore fleeing when the fight starts. This has led to tragic deaths, casualties, hatred and malice which had stayed between families for generations.

4) Chronic jealousy: A deceptive mind is also know as a jealous person. The line between deceptionn and jealousy is rather slender, therefore, deception could be seen as the act while jealousy could be the driving force.

In this case deception comes after jealousy has been habored for a long time.

This can be illustrated in a scenery where s person hates another person due to the fact that he is jealous about that person and in return says lots of negative things about that person to other people just because he wants them to hate the person as well for no reason.

Conclusively I would rightly aver that deception is the order of the day but could be defeated individually through the simple act of CONTENTMENT and knowing when to get involved, knowing how to see through or read through people’s emotions via their words and body language and the ability to know when to leave the stage.

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Help that depressed friend now! 6 ways you can help..

Depression is a mood disorder caused by uncontrolled happenings that are allowed to linger for long in one’s mind negatively which has the capacity to alters one’s feelings and one’s health in general.staying healthy is 100% possible

Who is a friend ? A friend is that person who thinks good about you and care about your happiness. Good friends seek for each others happiness and well-being.

Friendship can make two separate families come together as one. It can also ruin a whole community. However this series is not about the good and the bad side of friendship in the strict sense but its about how that friend can be of help to another just like family members would do anything to raise the family from decadence.Pressure and Depression
 It won’t be wise or nice to abandon that friend you can’t stop talking about how nice, how beautiful, how handsome or caring he/she is to you and others around.
There’s a common saying that in abundance our friends know us but in lack, sickness,  pain and difficulties we know who that true friend really is.
Sometimes the one we least value is the first to always come to our aid when we run into trouble water. So if that person you so much  value is feeling depressed you don’t have to run away because you feel you’re not a doctor.Too much”why”leads to depression-1
Truth is, that friend won’t forgive you if you  run away when he/she needs you most  but you can however help bring reliefs to that person by following these simple steps listed below  to strengthen your friendship.
  • Think of any past event that features in laughter such that can make him/her have a mind shift from that depressed mood. Remind the person of the funny role he/she played at that time so as to refresh in him/her good memories. By so doing you will help that depressed friend feel better.
  • Step out with that friend .

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    Depressed. 

A change of environment temporary is necessary to help restructure the mood of a depressed person. You can take him/her out for lunch or for a ride just to bring that positive paradigm shift into that your friend.Guides against depression

  • Compliment that your depressed friend.

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Depressed

People who are depressed don’t need to be told how bad they have acted or what they didn’t do well. All they need at that time is someone who will make  them feel better by helping them recollect their thoughts. This can be done by reminding the person how beautiful or handsome and amazing he or she is. Say it like you mean it. Praise and positive compliments does more than complaints and blame game in helping a depressed friend.

  • Get him/her a gift. People feel good when appreciated with gift items. It makes them feel loved and welcome. So getting a gift item you know he/she won’t resist will help put a smile on his /her face and that little smile can make that person’s face glow thereby eradicating that depressed feelings.

Peradventure the person is your intimate friend a warm hug, patting and soothing words is necessary to get him or her off that depressed feeling or mood.

  • Food is a necessity for living so ensure the person eat well enough in your present because depression has a way of draining people’s appetite for food. Thus, you can be part of that process by eating together with him/her while you chat alongside.
  • Mind what you discussed with the person at this time because depressed people are more sensitive to words than people who are  in their right frame of mind. Be careful not to discuss how bad your day was or how you had a failed business engagement that will further strained his/her feelings as that will make the person feel more depressed.

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