Seven Ways to Stay Attractive.
Staying attractive comes with a lot of stuff like increasing or boasting your self esteem especially when your attractiveness is obviously noticed and commended by those around you. More fulfilling is when such compliment is coming from your crush. In this article I refer to this ways of attraction as pillars of attraction.
Seven Pillars of Attraction.
There’s no one on Earth that doesn’t want to be found attractive whether romantically or otherwise. The quest for attraction is one of the primary motivation of man whether he or she knows it or not. However seeking to be found romantically attractive by the opposite sex is not a bad idea. It is more like an inherent attribute in everyone.Five salient relationship killers you must avoid
Come to think of it, why do you think people go for gym? Why do people wear good cloths and perfumes, have good hair do and spend alot of time looking at the mirror? Isn’t to look attractive to the opposite sex? The same goes for lovers of jewelries. The bottom line is that our daily activities are on the drive to be attractive.
In this article I will be discussing various area of attraction and the most difficult aspect of attraction which is how to make yourself romantically attractive to your crush without having to spend much money to perfect any self perceived imperfection. One thing is to be attractive and another thing is to stay attractive. Below are the seven ways to be attractive and stay attractive:
Stick Around Them Alot.
This is to initiate the proximity (nearness) effect which is a real simple and psychological effect. It simply suggests that the more you see someone, the more likely you are to like them. In real sense, there are alot of attractive persons in schools, churches… infact everywhere. There are also semi attractive people but as time goes by, these people you actually get crushes on or start relating with and eventually start dating, on a careful observation are the people you see on a regular basis. This presupposes the probability that the people you are attracted to are mostly people you see on regular basis.5 ways to #Shootyourshot . No 4 is a must
Make known your intentions .
From the microphone of social psychological, it echoed officially that the idea of playing hard to get is plainly unnecessary. The reciprocity effect states that you are more likely to like someone when it’s obvious that they like you as well. So if you are in love or you are crushing on someone, be you male or female ensure you open up. You have to let him or her Know about how you feel and leave the rest. Trust me , love rotates when you make your intentions know.
Make your crush’s friends like you.
When your crush’s friends like you, your task is 75% completed but when it’s the other way round then it becomes nearly impossible to make him or her find you attractive. When a guy or a girl you are crushing on does not find you attractive, he or she changes that perception when his or her friends keeps talking about you and how attractive they think you are. So when you want to make a girl or a guy find you attractive, make sure his or her friends like you and find you attractive.
Multiple observation and studies have shown that we are more attracted to persons putting on red. Although it hasn’t been scientifically explained but you can try out this simple approach. Just make sure when you are in company of him or her, you are wearing a cute red dress.
Try to spend time in isolated places with your crush. Hey! That doesn’t mean you should corner your crush or kidnap him or her. However, studies shows that the more alone time you spend with someone, the more likely you are to develop feelings for them. So create good isolation time and place for your crush.Success in marriage: Husband love your wife as Christ Loved the church
Maintain Eye Contact in Conversation.
This last approach is simple but very effective. When you are having a chat or conversation with your crush, try to maintain direct eye contact. When practicing this approach as a guy, cultivate the habit of talking less and the ability to listen more with some innocent eye contact you understand what I mean(smiles).
While doing to this, try as much as possible to be calculative with your speech and talk a bit mild. If you are a girl practicing this approach, just maintain eye contact and a mild smiley face that would do the magic. To win someone’s heart, endeavor to practice one or all the above listed approach which are very simple and efficacious. Incredible “7 Don’t s” you mustn’t ignoreHowever don’t use these approach on married people. I wish you good luck as you practice these approaches. For questions and contributions, use the comment box provided below.